Friday, April 17, 2009

You know you are in a long distance relationship when you are 'single' but not available.
You know you are ready for it when you decided to give it a try though you have been told many times that LDR don't work (and you even experienced it once yourself)..
You know you are missing him a lot when you are calling him fifteen minutes before his morning alarm rings.. just because you want to spend more time talking with him before he goes to work.
You know he is sweet when his voice sounds sooooo sleepy but he said it's alright and asked you if everything is ok. Sacrificing fifteen minutes of sleeping time on a working day is definitely not easy.
You know you are in love with him when you feel like posting up his travelling photo on your personal blog for no reason..
Well the hardest part I find in an LDR is actually NOT the distance but the time difference. At the moment I'm 7 hours ahead of him.. which means when I wake up, he's sleeping; when he wakes up, I'm at work; when I come home, he's at work and when he finally gets home, I'm already in the bed.. Yeah it can be very difficult sometimes but it's NOT IMPOSSIBLE. We are handling it pretty well so far with either one of us sacrificing a little bit from time to time. One of you would just have to stay up later, or wake up earlier.. I'm usually the one staying up late.

The occasional Skype sessions and late night chats are good enough to keep us a happy couple..

There are those time when I behave like some unreasonable kid throwing my tantrum at him but he has never failed to listen to all the things I have to complain and make me smile again by the end of the conversation. :)

And I have witnessed a couple who went through 5 or 6 YEARS of LDR and finally they are going to tie the knot by end of this year! I AM SO HAPPY FOR THEM! Can't wait to attend their wedding :) Super excited already since it's going to be my first friend's wedding and one of the most anticipated ones, to be frank..
Early congratulations :D

9 comments:

Jasmine * said...

JunQi, I didn't know you were so hankar until I read your previous post!!! I'm looking forward to your wedding day :D

And... you've started work? Where in the world are you!!!

junqi said...

hahaaa jas.. at the moment, i 'han' your wedding more than mine lorrr. so YOU FIRST ;) you have no idea how much i'm looking forward to attend YOU and rui's wedding!

Anyway i'm now in KB.. Not exactly working lah. Just helping in my mum's office to earn some cash.. ;)

askk u something.. Is there any cheap flight available from ur place to auckland? If yes, how much does it cost? for ...say 27 june.

Jasmine * said...

LOL. No wedding bells are ringing for me... for now. As for you, you've already chosen your line of photographers!!! *Clap clap* Decided on which wedding gown already? :)

There should be cheaper tickets if you book now. Try checking Virgin Blue or Jetstar or Tiger Airways or Qantas for offers. AU$150++ one way or so. Might be cheaper ;)

junqi said...

Thanks for the info.

As for the rest, let's discuss them in our dreams ^-^

smart[a]lex said...

a little more and it wont be a LDR

junqi said...

SMART[A]LEX!!!!! goshhh it's you! good to see you hahahaaaa ^^;
you miss me dont you ?!?!!

Chiam Yu said...

화이또 안준기 ^^ 할 수 있어~! 좀 있으면 다시 만날 거자나~~
너랑 처음 주유소에서 술 마실 때부터 니 얘기 들었는데 벌써 1년이 다 지났군. 한국에서도 이렇게 오래 견뎌 왔는데 지금이야 모 약과이겠지 ^^
bipang한테 안주 전해줘 ㅋㅋ

junqi said...

안주 전해줄게 ^^ ㅋㅋㅋㅋ

junqi said...

천유 술 너무나 먹고 싶구나!
보고싶어 진짜...
주유소에서 같이 술 먹고싶어..... 같이 놀고싶어 >__<